Joan on Sex: Who says love-making is different from sex?

Many people try so hard to create that difference between love making and sex but for me, "love making" is that kind of sex you have when you had a hectic day and still have to commit to your relationship by all means possible.

When people insinuate that quickies are for hoes, it breaks my heart! If I am in a gathering, I feel ashamed to contribute because I would think they would consider me a sex maniac or something. But to be honest, quick and rough sex are the best for everyone… even those with heart disease… ok, just kidding!

Many people try so hard to create that difference between love making and sex. According to some, one is slower and longer and more special while the other type is fast and perhaps rough. What is the difference when at the end of it all we just want to get sexually satisfied?

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For me, "love making" is that kind of sex you have when you had a hectic day and still have to commit to your relationship by all means possible. You know your flesh is weak but your mind can't stop demanding! However, some of my boy friends claim, it's that sex  they give to that "special woman" in their lives. … yet they still go for the other type of sex with the "un-special women" outside that relationship! Who are you fooling?

Why have both kind of sex and claim one is for hoes? Truth is everyone is a hoe! Because  everyone loves both kind of sex at different times of their lives. When you are young and sex active, be creative with your sex life. Age and sickness steal that vibrancy later but before that, why struggle to ascertain love making for the partner you are in love with and sex for those you have flings with? Who told you that one you are in love with doesn't want you to go crazy and faster too?

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Instead of trying to figure out why love making is different from sex, I do the sex (which is quick, rough and more fun) and when we get tired from all the feistiness, we would take it slow. Meaning I would be having both type of sex at the end of the day!

Besides, him pinning me to the wall or table, turning me up-side-down on that bed, choking and spanking me or even hitting it so hard from behind are all what makes my sex life better than yours.

Maybe you should try mine sometime…

 

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