Blog Reader About to Dump His Fiancee Because of Sex Needs Guidance

Hello laila, my name is Edward. I read your blog and I need you help at the moment. I am engaged to be married to a woman i really love. the engagement is a few months old but I am developing cold feet.

My fiancee is not a sex person. Me on the polar end loves sex. I would want an average of 2 love makings on a normal good day(morning before we leave the bed and last thing at night before we sleep). She only allows me grudgingly once in a while. I cant keep begging my wife for sex. My issue is peculiar cos most times i cant even sleep at night without having sex unless I came home extremely exhausted.

It is bad for me because I see me self having spontaneous erections in public and cheating on her which I end up regretting afterwards. I really want to be faithful but I also am a very sexual person. I will never cheat on a woman who dosnt deny me sex. I have sat her down and have explained these things to her. Even confessing to her and apologizing to her for cheating on her and then try explaining her role in my misbehaviour. I have explained to her but nothing is changing.

Every other thing is good but Honestly, I am a confused man at the moment. I love sex, and I aint gon pretend about that. Can a woman really change in a different person in that department with time? We never fight except because of sex. It has caused issues in the past and i have always made my feelings known to her but nothing is changing.

Please what do i do cos i really feel as if  am about to make a grave mistake by going on with this marriage.

What do I do?