Orgasms: 4 signs she is faking it

Are you as good as you think you are?

Are you as good as you think you are? Often times, perhaps to stroke a man's ago, or simply to have make him more excited, women will fake an orgasm. Most men feel so much more confident of their sexual prowess if the woman was able to achieve orgasm, so, to keep him happy, they would make the expected sounds and body movements to make him think they climaxed. But, in the long run, this does not help anyone. To have an idea on how you are really doing in bed, keep an eye out for the following signs that she is faking.

1. Overacting: When we are trying to convince people of something that is not true, it is human nature to overdo it. This happens when a woman if faking orgasm too. Real life orgasm is not supposed to sound like pornography, but if you find that she is trying to imitate a porn video with her sounds, it is likely she is faking. Orgasms signs vary according to the woman, Genuine orgasms aren't always sexy in the traditional sense of the word. People in the throes of ecstasy contort their faces into strange shapes, make awkward sounds, and pant loudly like dogs in heat. Porn videos do not show that.

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2. She gets there too fast: Most women need to be stimulated for a while before they can climax. If she seems to reach there as soon as you begin making your way towards her clitoris, she is most likely faking. Female orgasm takes time and focus and a lot of times, a man seeking to make his woman climax will have to put his own orgasm goals on the back of his mind.

3. She goes silent: After a real orgasm, a woman does not suddenly go quiet. It takes time to reach that peak and it will also take some time to climb down from it. With real orgasms, expect her to steadily catch her breath and her heartbeat to gradually return to normal. If she just switched positions, or give you a smile two seconds after climax, she is probably faking.

4. Minimal or no clenching: If you’re inside her or you fingers are in there you’ll physically feel her cumming. Her vagina and uterus will contract about ten to fifteen times and you’ll feel her clenching rapidly. Sure she can try to fake it by tightening around you but it’s impossible for her to do it as fast as the real thing. Take two of your fingers and grasp them with you other hand then squeeze those two fingers really fast ten times. That’s what it should feel like.