Sex Toy Bliss: 4 things you can do with a vibrator while making love to her

Too many guys view vibrators and their techniques as the competition, when they should look at vibrators as their allies in the struggle to get a woman to her peak.

Contrary to what some men thing, vibrators (or other sex toys) are not made to replace the penis so there is no reason to feel threatened about bringing them into your sex life. They do a whole lot to make sex better for her, and for you.

Here are 4 ways to have some fun with the vibe.

1. Alternate pleasure

You never want to use just the vibrator when you are in bed with her.. You need a mix of your vibrator techniques and your natural love making abilities. Try this easy maneuver. Get her going. Alternate stimulating her clit with your mouth, fingers and the vibrator. The change in sensations will drive her wild. Once she’s had enough, you can get in there and finish her off.

 

2. Vibe-Finger combo

Lay her on her back. Get her nice and wet. Slide your finger inside her slowly. Press your finger on the roof of her vagina. You should feel a cluster of nerves no deeper than two inches in. Stroke those nerves in a “come here” fashion. Once she's going, use your other hand to position the vibrator near her clit. Never stimulate her clitoris directly. It’s always better to tease her for a while.

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3. The Vibrating cowgirl

You guys have to have a good rhythm with one another to do this. Let her straddle you cowgirl style. Once you get going, grab the vibrator. Slide it between your pelvis and hers. Be careful not to jam it down there or both of you may be injured. Remember, do it slowly. The vibrations will hit her clitoris just right while she grinds on top of you.

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4. The vibrating doggy

This one will require your lady to help. But, seeing as how she’ll probably come harder than ever, she shouldn’t mind all that much. Get her on all fours. Enter her from behind. Once she gets going, have her use one of her hands to place the vibrator near her clitoris while you continue your rear onslaught. If you have an extra vibrator lying around you could even tease her butthole a little. You and two vibrators! How could she not love it?