Sex And Love: 8 things you NEED for an AWESOME sex life [Part 1]

Sex cannot get better unless both partners are willing to make things different, mix things up in the bedroom, change locations, try new pleasure ideas and be willing to involve their mind in the act of lovemaking, not just their bodies.

Are you having (enough) sex?

Most people, especially those in relationships, will answer yes to that question but very few will say ‘yes’ if asked; “do you enjoy sex every time you do it.”

The truth is that many people do not enjoy sex, they just do it to please their partner or they hope that the next time will be better than the last time.

But sex cannot get better unless both partners are willing to make things different, mix things up in the bedroom, change locations, try new pleasure ideas and be willing to involve their mind in the act of lovemaking, not just their bodies.

An interesting sex life, is basically dependent on how creative the people involved are willing to be – the more open minded the couple, the better the sex.

Here are 8 things you should do to turnaround your sexual experience immediately:

Else sex becomes mundane and, at some point, needless.

For those who want to keep it hot, here are eight tips:

1. Increase non-sexual contact – you have to get to that point where you don’t touch your partner only when you want to have sex. Intimacy for intimacy sake should be your modus operandi. Let your partner know that you appreciate him/her as a person, not just for sex. Touching is important because the body reacts very well to it. You up the game by giving a massage to each other. Kissing and hugging come tops here.

2. Give your lover oral more often – oral sex is very important in your relationship. You should be more open to giving it and receiving it. For women, this is very important because it is very hard for them to reach an orgasm by penetration alone. For men too, oral can be very rewarding. It has been said to help get harder erection. All in all, oral is very satisfying for both partners. You can even do the 69.

3. Have mature conversations about sex fantasies – talking together is as important as having sex. You both should let each other know what you think about sex, what you want in bed so that can collaboratively achieve it. The more you talk, the easier it gets to giving each other what is most desired in the bedroom.

4. Spend more time on foreplay – it is very unfair (to women especially) to make sex about penetration only. It is more than likely that the encounter will be brief and only minimally satisfying when compared to sex with a lot of foreplay. Foreplay prepares the body and makes sex more enjoyable.

Read the part 2 here: "8 things you NEED for an AWESOME sex life [Part 2]”