Sex And Love: 11 ways many women unknowingly force their men to cheat

Most men who cheat do it because they wanted something new which their present lover is not open-minded enough for. If you don’t give him oral, he’ll get it elsewhere…

It is not a lie to say that many men are sneaky, selfish and greedy when it comes to sex, romance and love.

They are selfish in the sense that they make the sex experience about them, chasing their own orgasms while forgetting that women need extra help to experience the bliss.

They are greedy because they like to go after different kinds of women with different kinds of body shapes and different kinds of bedroom habits – Cynthia for oral sex, Titi for anal sex, Hauwa for bondage sex and…

 

So you’ll find a man with a gorgeous wife/girlfriend still crawling night clubs looking for easy pick-ups.

Why?

It is easy to quickly say men cheat for sex simply because they are wired to just cheat for sex.

READ: 5 simple tips for men who want to last longer in bed

But sometimes (though not always), it is the women who cause it and here are the ways they do so:

1. You’re too passive in bed – sex is about two people using their bodies and mind together to make pleasure. So you must be active, participate and engage…

2. You punish him with sex – it is wrong to always deny your man sex anytime you have a little quarrel. That is only cuing him to go look for sex elsewhere…

3. You always wait for him to initiate sex – sex is about you two, so you need to be the one asking sometimes. When it becomes only him asking, you make him look like a sex addict. If his appetite is large, he might go outside…

4. You make sex look like a duty you’d rather not do – if you want to have sex, involve your mind and body. Otherwise, just say no. it hurts a man to have sex with a woman who acts like she is just doing him a favour unwillingly…

5. You are not open-minded in the bedroom – most men who cheat do it because they wanted something new which their present lover is not open-minded enough for. If you don’t give him oral, he’ll get it elsewhere…

6. You compare him with other men – telling a man he is less than or better than another man is not good in any way when it comes to sex. Just stick to telling him how you like him or what he does without bringing in a third part. It makes you look like a slut everyone is having…

7. You have too many uncommon fetishes – some women have weird fetishes that can push a man out. For example, some women hate kissing, other don’t like their breasts touched and some will say they don’t have sex on certain days or in certain sex positions…

8. You introduce strange talk during sex – it is wrong to make sex time a pep talk time. If you always ask tough questions when you are about to have sex, he will avoid it and start looking for sex outside…

9. You blackmail him with sex – one bad thing many women do is to blackmail a man with sex by asking him for favours (e.g. money and gifts) each time they have sex or he mentions sex. It is more like saying he should pay for the sex. So why not pay for sex elsewhere, with hotter girls…

10. You dwell too much on his sexual inadequacies – it is a ‘no-no’ to say too much about a man’s inadequacies, especially sexual inadequacies like penis size, body shape or stamina. Jokes like, ‘your small penis’ or ‘Mr. cum quick’ will push him away and out…

11. You are a ‘me-me’ sexual partner – sex is about the both of you, not you alone. So you must be willing to be reciprocal in the bedroom. If you leave him to do all the work, you’ll become a boring sex partner and then he’ll look elsewhere…

If you really want to keep your man in line, then try not to do any of the above anymore.

 

Your man will want to stay more with you if you give him a little of more of what he asks and you try to be innovative, open-minded and reciprocal.

Love and sex need the active mind and body to be perfect!

Go, make love…