7 ways in which women destroy their marriages, you are guilty of no 6

There are so many failed marriages in the society these days. It has become a norm for people to walk out of their marriages without looking back. The fault of the men would be reviewed at a later time while we concentrate on the role women play when marriages crash.

Men are believed to be the head of the family. Although many men use this in their arguments when they want to bully their partners, what they do not know is that the head cannot stand without the body. Women are the necks on which the heads stand. This is one of the reasons why people are quick to blame them when the union starts to crash.

In view of this, there are certain things women do that make their marriages fall apart. Some women feel so at peace in their relationships that they start to misbehave. Many create problems by themselves and do nothing to save the situation even when they could.

While women are being educated on the need to speak up and not put up with domestic violence, they should also learn fight for what is right.

Below are some the ways in which women destroy their marriages:

1. High expectations

Most young women getting married now have high expectations. This may not be a problem if their partners are financially buoyant. But when women want to live above their husbands’ means, then there would be problems.

They would be pushing their husbands beyond their limits and it would definitely get to the point where they would snap. When men snap, then develop immunity for the women’s thoughts and pushes.

2. Constant nagging

Women who nag constantly are indirectly pushing their husbands into the arms of other women. After having a long day at work, the last thing a man wants to hear are complaints. Nagging depresses them and drives them away from the house.

They would rather hang around in bars to cool off rather than go home. Men do not want to spend time with nagging wives.

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3. Misplaced priorities

Some women do not know the order of arrangement; they do not know where to place the men in their lives and how to treat them like husbands. No one is asking you as a woman to be a full housewife; as a matter of fact, it is a great achievement for your husband when you are successful in your chosen field of career.

But when you place that job, your friends, talents before him, you are indirectly telling him he is not as important as the other options. Most women need to know how to place their priorities.

4. Absence of physical affection

Little gestures count in every relationship. You really do not need to make huge sacrifices before you feel you are doing something positive in the marriage. Some women do not have physical contact with their husbands except they want to have sex. Some would not even want to have sex if they are not trying out for children. If you do not want your marriage to crash, get close to your husbands physically.

5. Assumption

Another way in which women crash their marriages is when they naturally assume their husbands have special supernatural abilities. He is just a man; do not assume he is a mind reader. Women should learn to speak and express themselves instead of making the men figure out the problems all the time.

It gets boring for the man when he has to go through mental exertion at work then return home to start brainstorming when you have mouths.

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6. Using sex as a weapon

Many women know men love sex and so use this to get back at that when they feel they have wronged them. Sex was created to be enjoyed by man and his wife; it was not created as a weapon.

Most women wreck their homes the instant they start to use their butts to fight. If you do not give in to him pleasurably, he would find it elsewhere. And when he starts getting it elsewhere, you are no longer safe.

7. Influence of friends

Another way women break their homes is through the actions of third party. Most women have friends who they believe are their confidants; these friends know every detail of their marriages and know when they sleep with their husbands and the thickness of their husbands’ sperm.

Women should learn to be more private with certain information as it would help them keep their homes. Comparing the successes of your friends’ marriages to yours is no way to live. Some of the so called confidants envy you and want to be in your shoes. They could advise you to leave your home and move on to greener pastures. Be wise!

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